life
Life is unpredictable.
Unstable.
Full of turns and curves. Sideways and byways. Highs and lows.
One minute you’re walking by a roaring fire in the heart of a ski village watching the snow sprinkle down from the sky in great anticipation for a weekend of skiing champagne powder.
The next you’re driving across western Kansas in the pitch black night hoping to make it to your final destination before it’s too late.
Life is unpredictable.
These past two days Mr. B and I have been filled with every human emotion – disappointment, sadness, regret, tears, happiness, and relief. The Grier family lost a beacon of light on Sunday morning. Mr. B’s grandmother, Granny to us, passed away. She was 93 years old.
There aren’t enough words in the dictionary to describe this woman, daughter, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother that would even begin to explain her extraordinary character. She was a cook, a go-getter, an enthusiast, a traveler, and most of all a care taker. She provided encouragement, home cooked meals, life lessons, and support to her loved ones all without asking anything in return. She was not one to gab on and on about herself, but found comfort and joy in listening about other’s trials and success.
She was dependable.
She was a constant light.
She was predictable.
As Mr.B and I drove across the darkened plains on Saturday night, we hoped and prayed that we would make it to the hospital before her spirit left this Earth. There was so much we wanted to tell her that we were thankful for from helping to raise Mr. B and his brothers to hand written recipes to a simple birthstone necklace that she gave me because February birthday girls needed to stick together.
We did make it.
We were able to say thank you.
We were able to say goodbye.
Even though we have lost someone near and dear to our hearts, her memory will live on through our stories and laughter. She will not be forgotten. She will be remembered and cherished, and will remain a constant light in our lives as we embark on each day.
We love you Granny. Always and forever.
Lauren:
No one could have written a more heart-felt testimony to love and loss. Granny embodied all the human qualities necessary to have lived a wonderful life. She will forever be an example for us all. My deepest sympathy goes out to you, Mr. B., and the entire Grier family. Give each other comfort, share stories, and celebrate the gift of Granny Grier. When you wear her necklace, her spirit will be with you.
Love,
Dad
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Grier family. I'm so glad you made it in time for one last I love you for Granny.
Let me know if you need my help in any way.
Beautifully written post.
Stunning post, Lauren. Heartfelt and beautiful. A wonderful tribute to Granny.
I bet she is beaming thinking of how much everyone loved/loves her and is so happy she gave you her February birthstone necklace.
So sorry for you and Bret's loss.
Love, Mama
and you my lovely niece, are an inspiration to all. my heart goes out to you, Mr. B and family. I never knew Granny, but what I can tell she is truly a gift from God. She is now in a place where she can be heard loud and clear, just when you need her. Now and forever. Love, jomer.
What a wonderful tribute Lauren. I am so, so sorry for you and Brett's loss and so thankful that you were able to say goodbye. Much love to both of you!
Lauren, my heart aches for you and your family. I'm so glad that you got to say what was on your heart. Remember Granny at her best and in doing the things that she taught you to do/shared with you. Lovingly teach those things to your someday daughters and granddaughters. That is her legacy to you.
xx
Sorry to hear about your loss Lauren! Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
This was really lovely. I remember when Granny gave you those hand-written recipes at your bridal shower. I was just so amazed at her kindness.